There are other things that make a person attractive aside from their looks. These personality traits in women prove that although men notice you by your face or body, snagging a second date will also depend on your personality and disposition. Keep reading if you want to know the best personality traits in women men find sexy and attractive.
Personality Traits In Women Guys Actually Find Sexy
You don’t have to be the sexiest woman alive to attract a guy. Most women tend to focus on what shade of lipstick to put on or what color nail polish is better. While these type of stuff usually attracts a man at first glance, what actually keeps a man is different business. These personality traits in women, which I’m gonna share today, are on top of the list of things that men find sexy.
1. Kind is the New Sexy
There is this notion that being a bitch is sexy. Sure, being feisty is something that challenges and attracts a man. But there’s a difference between a strong personality and a stinking attitude. And while it’s quite true that bitchy women finish first, I believe that kind women finish well. But don’t get me wrong. Being kind isn’t about being too agreeable or timid or not having any say on things. You can be a strong woman and still have compassion for others. It’s actually in the little things like how you treat a server, extending help when needed and being considerate.
2. Be Confident and Make a Statement
Ladies, it’s okay to make the first move once in a while. Just don’t overdo it. If you like a guy and you have the opportunity to introduce yourself and make a connection seize it. Most guys appreciate that in a woman especially when he’s particularly shy or intimidated to make the first move.
Another mark of a confident woman is in having a career or venture that she is really passionate about. It doesn’t need to be in a top notch firm or a multi-million business. As long as you are passionate about it it’s kind of magnetic and adds to your sexiness and charm.
3. Being Positive is Attractive
I say this with utmost love – it is not the obligation of your partner to fill the void you feel inside since childhood, or mend your broken heart or your trust issues. It’s not just women; most people enter into relationships with extra baggage and they expect the other person to save them from misery and make them happy. Your happiness is your responsibility. It may be easier said than done. I understand that. But despite the negativity in your past, you have the choice to be positive and take charge of your present and future. We are all fighting our own battles and men appreciate a woman who knows how to find happiness despite life’s challenges.
4. Honesty Makes You Pretty
This is pretty self-explanatory but let me take it further. Trust is one of the very foundations of a good relationship. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or a relationship with your friends or family. But you may ask, how mush honesty are we talking about here? Are white lies considered betrayal? Do I have to tell my partner every little secret I have?
My take on it is it depends on what works for both of you. Some partners say that they want to be transparent and tell everything to their partner all the time, and that works for them. Others say that being brutally honest and not having a filter can also hurt the relationship. It’s actually quite tricky but I guess that it’s safe to say that being honest is essential especially when it comes to fidelity and in important matters that will affect not just you but your partner as well. Men may be more susceptible to cheating but we are also more fragile when we experience infidelity. It’s a hard blow that few recover from.
5. When You Fight, It’s Done Right
Fights are inevitable and are actually healthy, if done right. A man appreciates a woman who fights fair. Stop the emotional blackmail ladies! Giving us the silent treatment and making us wonder what’s going on in your mind won’t solve the problem, so is shouting and nagging. If you want to address some pressing issues, talk straight and call us on our BS head on. Men often find it difficult to give an opinion on the matter right away but it doesn’t mean that we are ignoring you. Once you’ve explained the issue, try to be patient and give your man the time to process things and open up.
6. Embracing Your Quirks Has Its Perks
Whether you’re a total gamer geek or obsessed with hair color or body tattoos, embrace who you are and let the whole world see it. Your quirks will set you apart from cookie-cutter women who dress the same way and have no clue who they truly are. Even if you’re not every man’s cup of tea, there will be guys who will definitely love and be attracted to your quirks. Isn’t that a good thing? You don’t want to be loved for something that is not you in the first place.
7. It’s Fine To Have “Me Time”
Last in our list of attractive personality traits in women is also one that most women in relationships forget to have – “me time”. I personally adore a woman who values her own time and genuinely enjoys doing her own activities outside the relationship. It means that she is still in tune with her own needs and has a life that is not too dependent on me. Being too clingy and needy often kills a man’s desire and attraction for a woman than any other reasons for that matter. Give your man a chance to miss you, and sincerely enjoy your time. That to me is really sexy.
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For girls out there, these personality traits in women may come as a wonderful surprise for you, as you often have been brainwashed by society to look or act a certain way. Stress no further. Just be yourself, and trust that your awesome character can win over high heels and perfect eyebrows any day.
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